Let us all welcome the New year with Resolve gusto and determination!...

Hello Folks!

Wow what a ride!!.... The New year has refreshed my perception of  life and all the dead wood of dysfunctional cobwebs has slowly been vacuumed up.. as a result the New year will be a positive one...and as long as we have that positive foundation of inner peace and harmony we can conquer any problem with partnership with the cosmic mind of purpose...Yes...why are we here?...What is our purpose or reason for living?....Do we live to have fun, have our fling at the beach or do we even know what we really want out of life?....Lets start the New year with a positive note...If someone tells you your goal of making a million dollars before you retire is not possible ...tell them in very polite words...that my life is what I make it and if I strive to make my goal a distinct possibility on a daily basis then one day yes....my million dollars will be in my bank account!!!...People will always put you down and pretend they have your best interests at heart...but life is not a dream it is reality..and it is to be lived on a zen to zen.. moment to moment basis......and to not have a dream is really not living..its equivalent to digging ditches for a construction company and you are doing it so that you can feed and support your family...meanwhile thinking of that place in the sun sipping margaritas with your better half!...gets you through the day...the dream outside of a boring reality is what motivates people to greatness...A simple dishwasher at a small restaurant dreams of owning a franchise of 100 restaurants one day...and every day he dreams of what he can do to achieve this reality...as he washes one dish his mind begins to visualize himself directing a staff of 5 employees on a particular day...in his fancy posh Italian restaurant...he even sees himself hiring an accordion player to play at a customers table while they enjoy their favorite veal parmigiana with pasta...while sipping a nice bottle of Chianti wine...Yes dreams dreams and more dreams is what makes this world an interesting proposition....

They say that this life is really a dream and reality is to be found beyond the grave of existence...I must say that one can really make a difference in the world if your dream is to be of service to it....To serve oneself is a recipe for disaster and even though people are one very big headache we must still  live with them and work with them to make this planet a better home for our grand children! Millions of people don't give a hoot about their fellow man...about the homeless, the working poor and the common voter...Yes the common voter...one person multiplied by a million translates into the power of the people and the power to fire and hire politicians during the election process...Why dreams?...Well its what motivates me to get out of bed and work on my house, my guitar playing  my song writing and helping people via my consulting hypnosis business....will one song or kind powerful words change the world?...Maybe... not but it could change a few peoples minds as to what is important in life...Think of it this way...Stand on a street corner and recite the bible....you will get no response and most people will ignore you and pretty soon you will be spinning your wheels trying to get out of quick sand...a total waste of time!...People do it for something to do and reciting what JC said...""be a fisherman of men or women so they can journey toward salvation""..There are other methods to convince people of the goodness that is out there...and the rewards obtained from being a good person...are to be found doing a good deed in your own right...not preaching...One good deed is many times more powerful than one phrase quoted from the bible!...To implement what the bible says is the trick...Let us not worship Jesus until our knees hurt but let us emulate what he has taught us so that the power of his words has meaning...

Why start the New Year with goodness and dreams of doing good? Well its a great way to bring in the New year because there is so much indifference in the world...Yes the opposite of love is not hatred it is indifference!...One common way to basically kill someone without being charged for murder is to do what a lot of people do nowadays...This really hurts me because I know a few people who are doing exactly that!...The term ghosting someone is pretending they are dead when in fact they are not...Deleting their persona and core essence is what they are doing...In today's computer age deleting or unfriending some one is very easy and one can push a few keys and presto...that person is gone forever...one might argue that a virtual friendship is artificial anyway but it really proves that because of today's computer age and or culture one can ghost someone out of existence and without the emotional guilt in real life...pretending someone is dead ...the ghost is the person who deletes a family member out of their life... without actually confronting them about it..its fast and easy and it doesn't matter what you do to make things better...they have killed any memory of you...and do not give a hoot about how you feel!...Divorced partners behave this way and at times I'm guilty of the ghosting procedure but it is far better to ignore someone then it is to actually yell and scream at them with  every phone call...To communicate is to be mature and if a person is unwilling to communicate for the sake of children involved then this person is not mature and is not a functional adult!...The longer one ignores or ghosts someone the easier it gets...Its evil and wicked....Please dear Lord Let us understand that divorce is not nice and its is very cruel but keeping the lines of communication open is to eventually realize that it takes two people to make a son or daughter...and one must realize that the children of a divorce are not really divorced from each parent but could mean that there is an opportunity to get to know each person on an individual basis...without the arguments as in the past!...Yes dreams dreams dreams...Let us all dream of a good relationship with our children and let us achieve peace and harmony with the people in our lives..If you have given someone an olive branch and they do not accept it in good faith ...then the person giving it has done their part and his conscious remains clean and good..and he can die knowing that he has tried his best to rectify the situation...So let us all pray for understanding...it is true and may sound a bit ironic or funny...but hear this:...We all speak English and yet we do not understand each other!

Let us all be happy and love each other or at least respect each other in a polite way...Being polite to someone is telling them the door is open for good communication!....Stay tuned for the next entry of the verifiedbeliever....Love ya!!!